Don't sweat the small stuff with your family : (Record no. 30898)
| 010 ## - LIBRARY OF CONGRESS CONTROL NUMBER | |
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| LC control number | 98011149 |
| 020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER | |
| International Standard Book Number | 0786883375 (pbk.) : |
| 082 00 - DEWEY DECIMAL CLASSIFICATION NUMBER | |
| Classification number | 158.1 Car |
| Item number | 7 |
| 092 ## - LOCALLY ASSIGNED DEWEY CALL NUMBER (OCLC) | |
| Classification number | 158.1 Car |
| 100 ## - MAIN ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME | |
| Personal name | Carlson, Richard |
| 245 00 - TITLE STATEMENT | |
| Title | Don't sweat the small stuff with your family : |
| Remainder of title | simple ways to keep daily responsibilities and household chaos from taking over your life |
| Statement of responsibility, etc | Richard Carlson. |
| 250 ## - EDITION STATEMENT | |
| Edition statement | 1st ed. |
| 260 ## - PUBLICATION, DISTRIBUTION, ETC. (IMPRINT) | |
| Place of publication, distribution, etc | New York |
| Name of publisher, distributor, etc | Hyperion, |
| Date of publication, distribution, etc | c1998. |
| 300 ## - PHYSICAL DESCRIPTION | |
| Extent | 255 p. |
| Dimensions | 17 cm. |
| 505 ## - FORMATTED CONTENTS NOTE | |
| Title | Contents: Introduction Set a positive emotional climate Give yourself an extra ten minutes Keep in mind that a happy spouse is a helping spouse Learn from kids as they live in the moment Protect your privacy Forgive your outbursts Listen to her (and him too) Make peace with bickering Think of taking care of your home like painting the bridge Don't answer the phone Live from your heart Keep your promises Buy something new, let something go Encourage boredom in your children Expect it to spill Allow "white space" in your calendar Don't wait for bad news to appreciate your life Make light of being overwhelmed Ask yourself the question "what messges am I really sending to my children?" Appreciate the teen phase Refuse to let it bug you Nover miss a chance to say "I love you" Develop your own reset buttons Explore voluntary simplicity Keep good company Agree to disagree Don't put yourself down Stop exchanging horror stories Set a good example Experience calm surrender Create a "selfish" ritual If you have children, set your agenda aside Fill your home with evidence of love Don't let money get you down Start the day with love, live the day with love, end the day with love Never, ever, take your spouse (or significant other) for granted Put a ceiling on your desires Let them win an argument for a change Keep a sane pace Don't be a martyr Let go of your expectations Appreciate your in-laws Moods and home life Separate work from everything else Work on absolute acceptance of those you love most Don't sweat the little quirks When someone asks you how you are, don't emphasize how busy you are Give your neighbors a break Acknowledge the unique hardships of your family members Don't go to bed mad Ask yourself "why should I be exempt from the rest of the human race?" Let yourself off the hook Remember, actions speak louder than words Learn to stay centered Become less easily bothered Schedule time for kindness Don't talk behind their backs Have family meetings Remember to show your appreciation Put things in perspective Don't overemphasize your vacations Speak with loving kindness Sit still Take it as it comes Stay healthy Attend to feelings first Don't overevaluate your performance Imagine that someone else is in the room watching you Keep in mind, as within, so without Create a new relationship with someone you already know Keep your "thought attacks" in check Stop exaggerating your workload Remind others to treasure life Stop repeating the same mistakes Recognize when someone doesn't have an eye for something Don't expect your family members to treat you the same way others do Go camping Think in terms of my child, my teacher Remind yourself that you can't take it with you Have a favorite family charity Be patient with your landlord or building manager Get some exercise Look for incremental improvement Remind yourself frequently what your children really want Don't read between the lines Speak softly Stay playful Think of something you did right today Discover a simple pleasure Remember, it's the little things that will be remembered most Be an example of peace Express gratitude for your home Sop complaining about the complaining Embrace change Reverse roles with your sppuse Surrender to the fact that there's always something to do Become clutter-free Defer gratification Remember, this too shall pass Treat your family members as if this were the last time you were going to see them |
| 520 ## - SUMMARY, ETC. | |
| Summary, etc | Simple Ways to Keep Daily responsibilties and Household Chaos from Taking over your Life |
| 590 ## - LOCAL NOTE (RLIN) | |
| Local note | 75268 |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM | |
| Topical term or geographic name as entry element | Conduct of life. |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM | |
| Topical term or geographic name as entry element | Quality of life. |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM | |
| Topical term or geographic name as entry element | Lifestyles. |
| 942 ## - ADDED ENTRY ELEMENTS (KOHA) | |
| Koha item type | 100 - 199 |
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| Lost status | Source of classification or shelving scheme | Permanent Location | Current Location | Shelving location | Cost, normal purchase price | Total Checkouts | Full call number | Barcode | Date last seen | Date checked out |
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| Arthur Johnson Memorial Library | Arthur Johnson Memorial Library | Book Cart | 20.00 | 8 | 158.1 Car | 75268 | 2018-08-30 | 2018-06-25 |